…that in order for a Dom to “seek and sustain” a submissive, the Dom would open–at the time, or near future–an “entry door” to their own “possible needs” base?
I just thinking of “maybes” from my experience. Seems that one(sub or another)found mine as I sought out their pain-pleasure scale. Or…maybe I’m having some imaginary recollections here: I’m so grandiose that I get psych meds for it.
Reminscently,
Dom might’ve been dominated himself!